40 Things every woman should know


  1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
  2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
  3. If you have any doubt in your mind about a man’s character, leave him alone.
  4. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
  5. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. .
  6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
  7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
  8. Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but don’t let faith make you stupid. God does things decent and in order.
  9. Don’t settle.
  10. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later…

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Why All Men Cheat on Loyal Women – By Ebrahim Aseem


When I confessed to my EX’s questioning of my fidelity over a year ago, all she could say was “wow”. She seemed very taken aback by my answer. So today, when I was asked ‘why men cheat’ by a young lady during a Public Speaking event, I was initial hesitant to share the full conversation me and my EX had about her suspicion of my lack of loyalty.

“Can you tell me why all men cheat on loyal Women?” a curly haired PreMed student asked me today, during my public speak to a room full of 300 Women. My response to her question was,

“Males cheat on loyal women to boost their ego. A woman can be perfect for him. Beautiful, career minded, own money, cooks, does whatever he wants her to do in bed, loyal, intelligent, educated, faithful and yet, he will still cheat on her with an ugly…

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13 Ways You Know You’re Dating A Grown-Ass Man

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1. You know where you stand. You are his girlfriend or you are a girl he’s dating but either way he’s not scared to define it. He’s not afraid that a girl will cry and run away if she doesn’t hear what she wants to, he wants a mature woman because he is a mature man.

2. You don’t have to prod him to become a real adult. He’s self motivated to improve on his own. If there’s an area of his life that needs improvement, he’s working on it long before you notice it.

3. Texting with him is peaceful. Sometimes you have conversations. Sometimes you make plans. But it’s never a power struggle of who initiates and who texts lasts. It’s not fishing for compliments or security. It’s simply a short form of communication.

4. He calls his mom. You don’t need to tell him to…

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I’m The Girl Your Husband Is Sleeping With, And I Kind Of Think You Deserve It

Somehow I feel very weird reblogging this, but in a sense she has some good points and to some things it seems and is very wrong. Homewrecker or not, both parties are guilty of doing something they shouldn’t. She’s aware he’s married and he has a ring on his finger from a promise he made a woman whom at one point he loved. In today’s day and age cheating is the norm. Being faithful is rare, and this article gives you an insight into a thought that some just seem to turn a blind eye to, if you aren’t happy then go find what makes you happy but don’t hurt someone in the process. Be open. Be honest and if you feel the need to cheat, male or female, and you’re married, get a damn divorce and move past it.

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For whatever reason, I have always been the girl that guys talk to. Like really talk to. I think it’s because I don’t have this princess complex lots of girls have, I don’t make them put on airs about who they are and what they want in my presence just because I have a vagina. The result of this is that I’m privy to the details of my friends and coworkers and acquaintances’ marriages that women as a whole are really unfamiliar with, and I have two things to say about that: way more men cheat than I ever imagined, and I can’t really blame them.

It seems to me that there is a huge disparity between what women want and what makes them happy and what men want and what makes them happy. Women want the title and the image: a fancy wedding, a big house. Men want…

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